When we put a lot of confidence and expectations in a person, the risk of disappointment is great.
People do not exist in this world to meet our expectations, as we are not here to meet their needs.
We have enough ... we do to ourselves always, and when we want to be with someone, we must be aware that we are together because we like it, and we're fine, because we have never needed someone.
A person needs the other, they complement each other ... not to be two halves, but to be a full, willing to share common goals, joy and life.
Over time, you realize that to be happy with another person, it is necessary, first, that you did not need this person.
also understand that the person you love (or think you love) and do not want to share anything with you, it certainly is not the man or woman of your life.
Learn to love you, to take care of yourself, and especially to love someone who loves you.
The secret is to take care of the butterflies, but take care of the garden so the butterflies are from you.
Eventually you will find not who you were looking for, but who was looking for you.
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